Self Injury In Teens: Warning Signs

Teens who cut or burn themselves usually keep this behavior very secretive and cut in places that are covered by clothes because they are ashamed of their behavior and know that it is not socially acceptable. It may be difficult for parents to pick up on warning signs because often times these teens appear to be doing well and are not displaying any apparent signs of distress. It is important to note that any of the signs below alone is not necessarily cause for alarm, however, noticing several of these signs in your teen may be cause for concern:


1. Wearing long sleeve shirts or pants even when it is very warm out

2. Acting vague and evasive or angry when asked about cuts, burns or scabs

3. Refusing to wear a bathing suit in the summer (not related to being embarrassed by their weight) when typically they have enjoyed swimming

4. Keeping of razors or lighters in their room

5. Appearing more secretive than they usually do – spending a lot of time alone in their room

6. Disposing of bloody tissues in their room or bathroom

7. Associating with a peer who is known to self injure

8. Being suspected by anyone of self injuring (friends, teachers, family, etc)

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