Sunday, October 24, 2010

5 Tips Reduce Arguing With Your Teenager

For many parents of teenagers, the frequent conflict and arguing can be overwhelming.  Below are some tips that can significantly reduce overall arguing with your teenager.

Tips For Parents To Minimize Arguing:

1. Allow everyone to have a fair opportunity to say what they would like to say. Don’t just keep talking and repeating the same thing over and over without giving your teenager an opportunity to express their thoughts or how they feel.

2. Do your best not to interrupt when your teen is speaking their mind – this will increase the chances that they will listen while you speak.

3. Let your teenager know that you cannot speak to them when they are yelling and respond effectively when they stop yelling. Praise them during times when they are able to express themselves effectively.

4. Do your best to stick to the point and not bring up the past, other situations or bring others into the conversation unless it directly relates to them.
5. During arguments, never “put down” or make fun of your teenager.

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